Music I Want My Children To Listen To

My musical tastes have evolved through the years but instead of changing completely my love of music has grown stronger and my repertoire wider.  This is something not everyone understands and so depending on who you are you may only know part of my musical taste – the chosen few will know the full extent of my listening pleasures.  From Robbie to Kylie to Buddy – The Killers, The Cure, The Chemical Brothers – Johnny Cash, Brenda Lee, Connie Francis – West Side Story, Wizard of Oz, Les Mis – Goldie, Groove Armada, Massive Attack and Basement Jaxx.  I love them all and want my children to sample each and everyone of them … and more …

The music I loved in my own childhood was heavily influenced by my parents.  In particular one mix tape that we listened to over and over in the car featuring Buddy Holly, The Everly Brothers, Paul Anka, Neil Sedaka and more … It was badly recorded and over recorded and we knew where all the breaks in the songs came and what song came next.  I loved 50s and 60s music as a child and I still do. I definitely want my children to understand the history and significance of rock and roll.

As a child of the 80s there was a time I am afraid to say when I loved all things Stock, Aitken and Waterman, especially Kylie.  I still do have a secret thing for Kylie and have already introduced my daughter to such classics as Never Too Late and Wouldn’t Change A Thing.  Thank you You Tube!

Around this time my cousins also introduced me to INXS, Bon Jovi and Aerosmith, alongside Wham!  Another branch on my tree of music was born.  Many of my dips and dives into different artists and bands have been influenced by Paul and Glen (the cousins) – Wet Wet Wet, AHa!!, George Michael and much much more.

As a young teenage I loved James, EMF, The Farm, Happy Mondays, Stone Roses and The Cure amongst others.  I also love Madonna and began to get into Rave!  At Youth Club I loved Guns n Roses but would equally love dancing to Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch!  Oh the memories!

As an older teenager my heart was firmly attached to dance music particularly house but also drum and bass whilst frequenting Cream at University!  I spent many mispent nights at Cream, Gatecrasher and many other, smaller, better, underground clubs across Europe.  I danced right through to my late 20s, until I was 30.  During this time I saw The Prodigy and Moby live many times and just LOVED them!

Alongside dance though I also loved alternative music particularly Tori Amos, Massive Attack, Primal Scream, Leftfield, Radiohead, The Verve, REM, Ocean Colour Scene, The Levellers, Bjork and there was still an allegiance to rock / grunge – U2, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, Faith No More, Foo Fighters.  I also liked Def Leppard at some point and Metallica too.

And then came Brit Pop – Oasis or Blur – I unashamedly loved BOTH!  And I still do!  I also love Dodgy.  I love Dodgy!!

More recently I have fallen in love with The Killers and The White Stripes with thanks to David for these.

I could go on and on and on about music and there will always be something or someone that I would have forgotten to mention.

Here are some songs though that I would not want my children to miss – in no particular order and again there will be omissions that I will kick myself for later!

Put Your Head On My Shoulder – Paul Anka

Grace – U2 (contributing factor to Esther’s middle name)

If You’re Thinking Of Me – Dodgy

No Regrets – Robbie Williams

Hotel Yorba – The White Stripes (David was singing this to me when I first realised we would get married, way back in 2007,  just weeks after we had met)

Take Me to the Place Where the White Boys Dance – The Killers (listened to on journeys to and fro NICU)

Wires – Athlete (a tale of a premature baby)

At My Most Beautiful – REM (Thinking this will be the song that I walk down the aisle to!)

I’ll Stop the World – The Cure (Mine and David’s song)

Groove Is In The Heart – DeeLite

At the River – Groove Armada

Cherish – Madonna

Movin’ On Up – Primal Scream

Waterfall – The Stone Roses

Champagne Supernova – Oasis

This is a Low – Blur

Leftism – Leftfield (whole album)

Blue Lines – Massive Attack (whole album)

… there are just so many more …

I can feel a muscial evening coming on very soon.  How I love mornings when you wake up to find your CD collection spread out all over the floor where you have been playing song after song in a haze of memory and music.  I want my children to have that.  I want my children to grab music, embrace it and let it feed their soul, fuel their lives and be the soundtrack to their memories.

Music and life go hand in hand and help everyone tell their story.

I am sure that music will play a huge part in my children knowing mine.

This post was inspired by http://ghostwritermummy.wordpress.com/2011/01/16/music-i-want-my-children-to-listen-to-daniel-johnston/

To Do!

I have decided to make my To Do list public to motivate (or shame) myself into getting it done.

The timetable for this list is the month of January!

Things I would like to do before the end of January

1. Encourage William to take a bottle so that I can have some baby free time and to allow David to be more involved with feeding.  Esther guzzles a bottle down but so far William has resisted.  My attitude needs to change for this to work as I need to accept that them having a bottle of expressed breast milk is just as good as or nearly as good as straight from the mothership!  This is definitely a number one priority on my list as it will allow me to do number 2.

2. Make some time for me.  I would like to go to our local spa for a day and enjoy the pool, sauna and steam room as well as have some treatments.  It costs £80 to do this but I think I am going to use my Christmas money to treat myself to this one day out and I am sure I will not take the whole day anyway, just a half day.  Daddy will enjoy some quality time with his children after being away for a few days this month. 

3. Read a book and not Twilight AGAIN!! During IVF, pregnancy and breastfeeding I keep rereading these books as they are so easy to read but I have a whole stack of ‘real’ books waiting to be enjoyed when I have the concentration and energy!

4. Spring clean the whole house and at the same time sort out all baby belongings to ensure have useful baby stations in each room to allow for further cleaning and sorting – e.g. bouncy chairs in bedroom, tummy time mat and toys in bathroom, swing in kitchen etc … We have so much stuff that could be made much better use of to allow me to be busy around the house rather than confined to one room

5. Get dressed everyday and go outside every day with or without babies. 

6. Start and sustain healthy eating plan

7. Start working towards going out for a night with David while his parents babysit – I am setting my sights on March for this happening.  We are going to get really dressed up and go out for a posh dinner with lots of wine!

So much to do but all such positive things that will make life better for me and so for everyone around me as I can be such a grump!

2011 is going to be a great year and this list is the start.

I will keep you updated as to how I get on x