“Anger is like flowing water; there’s nothing wrong with it as long as you let it flow. Hate is like stagnant water; anger that you denied yourself the freedom to feel, the freedom to flow; water that you gathered in one place and left to forget. Stagnant water becomes dirty, stinky, disease-ridden, poisonous, deadly; that is your hate. On flowing water travels little paper boats; paper boats of forgiveness. Allow yourself to feel anger, allow your waters to flow, along with all the paper boats of forgiveness. Be human.”
― C. JoyBell C“Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, “What else could this mean?”
Shannon L. Alder“Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything – anger, anxiety, or possessions – we cannot be free.”
Thich Nhat Hanh“Never respond to an angry person with a fiery comeback, even if he deserves it…Don’t allow his anger to become your anger.”
Bohdi Sanders
Anger is a complex and often misunderstood emotion
It is something that we all feel
It is something that frightens many of us
If we do not know how to control it
How to react to it
Books provide a safe space to explore anger
They help us see what anger is
Where it comes from
What causes it
What happens to anger if it is ignored
What happens to anger if it is accepted
Processed, understood and let go
Books help us understand how anger can feel
How we can feel consumed by it
Over powered by it
Through books we see how emotions and feelings change
As we harness our energy and find ourselves
Not drowning but riding the waves
In charge of what we are feeling
Books can show children and their grown ups
That if we can harness our anger
If we can control it
We can make it a positive charge
We can use our feelings for good
Books show us the power in reaching out
How making meaningful connections can help us
If we can share how we feel
It can help us to accept it and deal with it
Channel it and change it
Books show us that we can start anew
These brilliant and beautiful books
Shine a light on anger
On frustration, fury and rage
These stories show how anger can be feared
How it can be faced and freed
These books help children to explore
And understand their own feelings
While also developing empathy for others
I love these books and the comfort
Support and inspiration
They offer young readers
And their grown ups
“Anger is just anger. It isn’t good. It isn’t bad. It just is. What you do with it is what matters. It’s like anything else. You can use it to build or to destroy. You just have to make the choice.”
Constructive anger,” the demon said, her voice dripping sarcasm.
Also known as passion,” I said quietly. “Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”
Jim Butcher