My Expert Midwife and Me

A month ago at The Baby Show

I was invited to an intriguing meeting

About a brand new product

To help new mummies and mummies to be

Before and after birth

To tend to the different aches and pains

We all experience

But do not often talk about

My Expert Midwife

Is actually two ladies

Two clever and genuinely lovely ladies

Who want to get women talking

About their pre and postnatal bodies

They are incredibly passionate about the product range they have created

And equally determined to encourage women to talk

Openly and honestly

About pregnancy, birth and postnatal experiences

As part of their #letsbehonest campaign

At the moment I am 34 weeks pregnant with my fifth baby

I am only too aware of all the nitty gritty problems

That come with pregnancy, birth and the early days of parenthood

I have experienced many of the unpleasant physical effects

That are considered taboo topics of conversation

Physical things that in no small way

Contribute to the emotional well being of mummies

And that feeling of loneliness much talked about on social media

In recent weeks and months

Becoming a mummy is the most special thing

The most precious time

But it comes with confusion and discomfort

And physical consequences

For even the fittest most zen of mothers

Pregnancy niggles affect us all

They do

Whether we choose to talk about them or not

My Expert Midwife know this

Have created products to ease the troubles

And a brand ethos that positively encourages women to talk

Openly and honestly about every aspect of pregnancy and birth

And those earliest days of recovery

Because we all do need time and space and healing after birth

Even if delivery has been swift and relatively pain free

And definitely when birth has been not as we had hoped

Or traumatic

My Expert Midwife have taken two years

To research and develop their products

Before bringing them to market

They have worked with real women

Real mothers

To make their brand

Midwife developed and mummy approved

Let me tell you about the lovely ladies

I have had the pleasure and honour of meeting

And their products

That with every reason

They are passionate about and proud of

Tackling taboos together

Are the lovely Lesley and Claire

Lesley is an experienced midwife

And Claire a massage specialist

Both ladies are mummies too

My Expert Midwife is the brain child of Lesley Gilchrist – registered, practising midwife with experience of private and NHS provision, media midwifery expert and ‘One Born Every Minute’ TV personality – and Claire Charlton – pre, post-natal and baby massage specialist. Both mums to two children – with direct experience of difficulties following childbirth – Claire met Lesley whilst looking for a more positive birth experience with her second child. As well as becoming firm friends, they quickly realised that they shared a joint passion for educating women about the reality and side effects of becoming a mum. After identifying a need, as well as a gap in the market following extensive research with mums who had suffered birth trauma, My Expert Midwife was born.

The pair have focused on four products

But the brand is about so much more

Lesley and Claire want to help women feel confident

In talking about the realities that come with being pregnant

Giving birth and being a mum

They want to assist them with the necessary tools to ease discomfort

Aid healing and generally feel better

I have to say on meeting the duo

At The Baby Show

All we did was talk

And talk and talk and talk

my expert midwife

We talked about the products

But we also just talked about pregnancy and birth

About babies

We talked about talking

And the importance of encouraging women to be more open and honest

About such delights as cracked nipples, stretch marks

Constipation and piles

We laughed and smiled

And I felt so at ease talking to these ladies

About topics as intimate as intercourse and perineal massage

They gave such good advice

So readily

I knew before testing

That their products were going to work

I am certain that their brand is going to succeed

Here are their products

Spritz for Bits is the product I have used the most in the last month. As an older mum who struggles with constipation in pregnancy I also suffer from piles. It is a problem that seems to come and go at different stages of pregnancy and is often related to my iron and water intake I think. Also, with this being my fifth baby I can sometimes have a real feeling of heaviness between my legs. My pelvic floor is evidently not what it once was! Spritz for Bits is cooling and soothing. It eases irritation and makes everything down there feel fresh, feel clean. The spray is multi directional so super easy to use. I know this is going to feel so good after birth when I am at best going to feel stretched and at worse torn and stitched. I had stitches after Tilda’s birth and those early days were so uncomfortable I would love to have been able to Spritz my bits!

Fantastic Skin Elastic is a wonderful massage oil and moisturiser for mummy. It can be used all over your body but is mainly designed for bump. It can help prevent stretch marks by making the skin elastic, it eases itching and soothes dry skin. My Expert Midwife also provides massage techniques that not only give you some bonding time with your unborn baby but can also ease constipation and other abdominal discomforts.

No Harm Nipple Balm is lovely and does exactly what you would expect it to. Provides a moisturiser for your delicate nipple area and can soothe painful cracked nipples. Also acts as a barrier cream and is safe to use while feeding. In the style of Deborah Meaden off the telly I declared that I would not use anything during baby’s feeds that I would not eat myself. I then found myself at The Baby Show eating nipple balm and discussing it’s potential as a nourishing lip balm. Very glossy, according to Claire! Super safe, super soft, super soothing. A perfect balm for nipples of feeding mamas.

Peri Prep Your Bits is an oil to aid perineal massage. There are some instructions for this on My Expert Midwife website complete with pictures. This massage is suitable from 34 weeks of pregnancy and stretches your vagina ready for birth. It can prevent tears and the need for stitches. It makes your delicate area softer and more supple and pre stretches the place where baby’s head will pass through. I am on baby number 5 and I have never got to grips with this massage. I think this time I might ask David to do it. I think it is a job he will not find too much of a chore and it has huge benefits for me when it comes to birth and could lead to a shorter healing time postnatally.

There are lots more alternative uses for all of these products and you can read more about all of them on the My Expert Midwife Blog

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If you would like to test out the products for yourself then you can win them all right here in a very simple to enter competition

The range is beautifully packaged and would make a perfect baby shower gift and an excellent addition to any hospital bag.

Good luck!

My Expert Midwife Pre and Post Natal Product Bundle

I was given one of each product to test and review

9 thoughts on “My Expert Midwife and Me

  1. My neice has a 5 months old and has been advised not to take her swimming due to eczema -is there anything she can use to preventeczema flare ups if they go swimming

  2. I’d like to ask which position should you lay your baby back front or side I’d like to know the safest way

  3. Would love these products, have just had my 3rd baby. Such a fab range and so important to be honest, it is such a vulnerable time and talking to other mummies and your midwife can really help.

  4. I have serious fear and anxiety about pregnancy and birth following my experiences with my son I’d like to know what products I can use to try and alleviate any tensions and to help relax as I know you have to be careful with holistic remedies

  5. My sister is 8 months pregnant and is getting lots of leg cramps. Is there anything she can do to alleviate the symptoms?

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