The last two weeks have just flown by
Literally I have no idea where the days have gone
We have been busy which always helps the time to pass
Not sure I would describe our days as fun though!
Two weeks ago today
I went for my first growth scan
As expected it was a long wait for a very short appointment
The sonographer told me that baby looks well
And that she is very active
She certainly was during the scan
Kicking the scanning wand at every opportunity
I was not at all surprised when told that our last baby
Is measuring up as a big baby
Her head is in the normal range
Her weight is within the normal range
But she is long
And with a fat tummy
Bea was also a large baby so this was not news to me
I told the sonographer that I do grow large babies
But she said that she had to send me for a gestational diabetes test anyway
She asked if I had one before
Which I had not
The appointment was made for the following Monday
Giving me 4 whole days to panic about it
Monday came and I was very grateful to David for coming with me
We got to the hospital at 8.30am
I had been fasting since 10.30pm
I do not do well without food
The gestational diabetes test was frustrating
Because they did not tell me anything
So it started with a pin prick to test my sugar levels
Then syringes of blood were taken
For the glucose test and my 28 week bloods
I then had the disgusting ‘Lucozade’ style drink
Which really was vile
And then the two hour wait
It was good having David there
We talked and worked side by side on our laptops
While waiting I saw a young girl I used to teach as a 10 and 11 year old
Going for a baby scan
It made me feel so very very old
The two hours passed fairly quickly and without incident
I was called back in for a further syringe of blood to be taken
And then sent on my way
With no clue whatsoever to how the test had gone
And I still have no idea
I am assuming that as I have not been called
That my levels must have been fine and I do not have gestational diabetes
But quite honestly
Who knows?
My care in this pregnancy has been patchy at best
Totally uncoordinated
I had to miss my 28 week midwife appointment
As it was booked for the same day and time as my scan
I am now not seeing my midwife until I am 33 weeks!
I do now have a Consultant appointment booked for this Monday
I referred myself at the hospital
Explaining my age and my history
And they have agreed that I need to be seen asap
And so Monday it is
Hopefully with the wonderful consultant that we had with Bea
That is who I asked for
But we will see
I am definitely feeling the weight of pregnancy now
I can still do my own socks and shoes
But it is becoming more of a struggle
I need to pee a lot
And am up and down to the loo day and night
I get a little breathless sometimes
And today I think I had a bit of a funny turn
Which was linked to heart palpitations
I know this is linked to all the extra blood flowing around
And the extra strain on my heart
Pregnancy is a tough old job you know!
I have been struggling emotionally
With the thought of diabetes
The worry about managing four children
For the most part on my own
Financial stresses
And it has also been the anniversary of Matilda Mae’s funeral
A date I always find really tough
The need to pee is disturbing my sleep
We are also transitioning Bea to her own bed
But I am finding that it is me that cannot sleep without her
Not the other way around
I worry about her and check her often
I know that all parents worry
But after losing a child to SIDS the fear is intense
But I know that she needs to be sleeping in her own bed
Before the new baby comes
I am swinging between denial
And elation
That in less than 9 weeks
Our fourth and final daughter will be here
I am hoping so much
That all will be well
And we will bring our second little Rainbow home
I remember reaching this point in my pregnancy with Bea
When I had to let hope win
When I had to let the excitement and happiness rule the anxiety and fear
And I had to start getting ready for our new arrival
Next week I have a Consultant Appointment
And a growth scan
And I want to get a plan in place
For the arrival of this baby
Once that has been discussed
Then I will pack my hospital bags
And make the house ready for a baby
Our baby
I will make the house ready for bringing our baby home
To help with the preparations
I have some very exciting collaborations coming up
And am proudly acting as an ambassador for a few of my favourite baby brands
I am looking forward to working closely with some very special people
And sharing top tips and products focusing on safer sleep
Being an older mummy
And bringing a new baby into a large home educated family
If all is well with our Sprinkle of Stardust
We are going to have a magical tale to tell
And a wealth of experience to share through this blog
I hope that you will join us for the journey
Today I had a very emotional whooping cough vaccine
The lovely lovely nurse seemed to have all the time in the world for me
I told her about Tilda and she just hugged me
I told her about the twins being premature
Sometimes when I talk to people about my parenting history
It just all seems too much to have happened to one family
But it is our story
Our journey
And she was genuinely sad and sympathetic
She asked me if I felt I was being adequately supported
And I had to be honest and say no
I do not feel that I am being supported this pregnancy
And given my age and my history
I find it hard that we are being allowed to slip through the net
The maternity team in our area is totally over stretched
I have heard some shocking stories from local mummies
Until now our care has always been excellent
And I am hoping that as this pregnancy comes to a close
And we prepare for our baby to be born
It will all come together
I have to have faith that it will
And that our baby girl will be born safely into the world
Because I love her so very much already
I have such plans
Such dreams
We all do
We cannot wait to meet you little Sprinkle
We just cannot wait to hold you
I had the GTT with my third baby based on my weight and having had a 9lber before. But when I went for a growth scan (because my second baby had intrauterine growth retardation), it took 25 minutes of repeated measuring and worrying and reassurances that I had definitely had a normal GTT before they would accept that I have big babies and that’s not a problem. My baby was 8lb 10oz at 39w which was exactly his predicted weight. So try not to fear.