Today I am 14+4 weeks pregnant
It is crazy to think that come Christmas
I will be halfway through this pregnancy
Halfway
Yet with over 5 months to go
Pregnancy timings always baffle me
My two due dates have now been moved closer together
I started with an EDD of 13th May
This was moved by our Consultant to 9th May
And then my NHS 12 week scan
Changed it again to 11th May
I am going 10th May as a happy medium
But know that it is rare for a baby to arrive on their given day
Though Tilda did
And I will always treasure that little trinket of specialness about her
She really was a very special baby
This baby is proving to be a bit of a pickle
Not willing to give the doctor or the sonographer
The views they needed
For the nuchal scan
What this meant was that both scans
Were lovely and long
Meaning I got to spend lots of time watchig my sprinkle of stardust
As she wriggled and flipped
Tossed and turned
Crossed her legs
Tried to put her hand in her mouth
And gave a massive yawn
The feeling of getting to know your baby on the screen
Never gets old
The magic is never any less
Here is a brand new human
A brand new piece of me
That, all being well
Will soon be in my arms
And living with us and her siblings
Conception, pregnancy, birth
They are all miracles
And I am always in awe of the glory of them
Growing a baby is amazing
In so many different ways
Private 12 Week Scan
I was not confident that my NHS scan appointment would come in time
I had only seen the midwife at 12 weeks
So we booked an appointment with our wonderful Mr Penman
We had already seen him at 9 weeks
For an early scan to check that baby was where she needed to be
This did not stop me feeling terrified
Absolutely terrified
That there would be no heartbeat
That she would not have grown
That something would be wrong
As we saw her heartbeat flicker on the screen
And heard the pounding rhythm
Loud and clear and regular
The tears began to fall
As they always do
Here was our baby
Our beautiful baby
With all her fingers
And all of her toes
Here is her bladder
Nice and full
Showing that her kidneys are working
Here is her beautiful butterfly brain
An image ingrained on my mind from Matilda’s 12 week scan
Her heart was beating at 154 beats per minute
From crown to rump she measured 70.6mm
7 centimetres yet already perfectly formed
A miracle!
The fat pad
Measured as an indicator for Downs Syndrome
Was 1.6mm
This measurement reduced my risk from 1 in 80
To 1 in 714
My placenta is posterior and high
All the important organs appeared normal
Though of course these will be examined in more detail at the 20 week scan
The anomaly scan
Which Mr Penman prefers to do at 22 weeks
So we will be booking in with him
As we did with Tilda and Bea
The fetal measurements as this 12 week scan suggest a gestation of 13+ weeks
I thought I was 12+5
Mr Penman was also able to tell us that he thinks our baby is a little girl
Though it is only 80% accurate at this stage
He was right with Matilda Mae though
And with beautiful Bea
And this is how he knows!
After the scan we went back to Granny’s house
Where Esther, William and Bea were waiting
We showed them the photographs
And as they realised what they were seeing they cheered
I was so relieved by their reaction
They were so happy to know that a little baby was on the way
A baby in mummy’s tummy
William’s feelings changed when we told them it was a girl
In fact he burst into tears
I think he and Daddy would have quite liked this one to be a blue one
And she still could be
William is clinging on to his 20% chance of a brother
I am clinging on to the fact
That our little sprinkle of stardust
At the end of our first trimester
Looks to be okay
She is a wriggler
Always on the move
A few times she seemed to be looking right at us
I love her so much already
I felt like I could reach out and touch her
I kept saying ‘Hello Baby’ over and over in my mind
I am growing a baby
A beautiful rainbow baby
And I am hoping with all my heart that she will stay
NHS Nuchal Scan at 13 weeks plus 6
This appointment did not start well
It was at Maidstone Hospital
My first time there
And the parking is just unbelievable
There was literally nowhere to park
After an hour of checking every car park on the site
I had to call the clinic and explain why I was so very late
The lady on the phone spoke to parking
Who told me to park illegally and get to my appointment
I was to find anywhere within a car park that was not blocking an already parked car
An entrance or an exit
I searched around the overflow and main car park
But all these illegal places were already taken
I ended up parking in a Keep Clear bay
It was for a lawn mower vehicle I think
As it led on to the grass
And there was no access to anywhere else as there was a wall
I felt awful
But I had no choice
Forty minutes late I arrived at the antenatal clinic
Properly stressed
A nervous driver at the best of times
I was an emotional wreck
The lady on the reception was lovely
And said that I might have to wait
But I would be seen today
In the end the wait for the scan and the bloods
Was not too bad
I was absolutely desperate for the loo
Having drunk a pint of water an hour before my appointment
Now two hours ago!
I could barely walk to the scanning room
But I made it and up on to the bed
Only after a few minutes to be told my bladder was far too full for the scan
And I should quickly go and empty it!
All that discomfort for so long
For nothing!
Once I had been to the loo
The scan began again
And I was able to relax a little and enjoy it
And watch my beautiful baby
Being a pickle again!
Bouncing around on the screen
Testing out every position
Except the one position
That the sonographer needed
I love that she already seems to be strong minded
Rather like our beautiful Bea
Beautiful bonkers Bea!
The scan set up was strange at the hospital
New to me
One person doing the scanning
And another person recording the measurements
So while the two talked to one another
They did not really want to talk to me
Thankfully I had already had a scan
So I was fairly confident that everything was okay
But if this was my first scan for this pregnancy
I think I would have been disappointed with the lack of communication
The lack of explaining to me
What the sonographer was seeing
What the measurements meant for baby and me
As it was I was happy to just stare at my little girl
Trying to convert the scan image
To a picture in my mind of how she might be
My daughter
My baby girl
This scan took place over a week after our private scan
And the measurements linked up with that
A crown to rump length of 80mm
And a nuchal translucency of 2mm
I was happy with the findings
And so seemed the team
I will find out more when I see my community midwife
At 16 weeks
After the scan I had some blood tests taken
And again the results will be discussed
At my 16 week appointment
So that is it for now
Keep on keeping on
Until we see the midwife
And hopefully hear the heartbeat of our baby girl
Keep growing little baby
Keep flexing and moving
And wriggling around
I hope you are a fighter
Ready for this road laid out before us
We all already adore you
We cannot wait to meet you
And, all being well
Bring you home x
wow what a lovely post to read. Congrats to you all and boy or girl does not matter as long as you get 10 fingers and 10 toes.