Week 11
11 weeks not living at home
Eleven long weeks in a temporary house
With our life on hold
Unable to make plans
Set routines
A journey of uncertainty
Waiting for the building to be done
Soon we will start to think about moving back
Circumstances mean we will not be moving home
To the finished house we hoped for
But it will be finished enough
To live in
And to begin over time making more our home
It is better now than it was
At least it will be
When we move back in
Complications
Unexpected discoveries
And over enthusiasm of ideas
All mean that our money has not stretched as far as we hoped it might
The shape of our home will be ready
But it will be quite hollow inside
Ready to be filled with love
And family life
And ready for interiors to be created
To suit the way we are
The way we live
I have to admit that I had hoped very much
To move back into a completely new and lovely finished home
But that cannot be
So now it is time to plan
How we can make the most of being able to design around our lives
Time to start planning the routines
We all so desperately need
Time to feel we are somewhere that is ours
And not stranded in some distant waiting room
I will be glad to go home
To be where we belong
And I will be so glad to have a garden
Our garden
I will be glad to be home
One part of the house that will be complete
Is the kitchen
And in that kitchen will be the appliances
That make life for a family of five
A little easier
The dishwasher
The fridge freezer
The washing machine
In the future
Not as soon as planned
We will also have a tumble dryer
Which will make a huge difference to out lives
Especially in the winter
The washing machine and tumble dryer
Will actually tuck neatly away
In the utility
The laundry room
For the last three months
We have lived in a house
Where the washing machine is in the lounge
Every evening feels like we are being tortured
The noise and the heat from the wretched machine
With three small children
Home all the time
There is always washing and drying to be done
The same story with the dishes
With so many mouths to feed
So many times a day
The dishwasher is always full
Though our current dishwasher is not actually working
So we have been doing our dishes by hand
We have to wash a few at a time
Leave them out to dry
They never feel as clean
The thing I am most looking forward to having
Is a big American style fridge freezer
We have never had one before
Everything has always been stuffed into a tiny freezer
And a too small fridge
I have not been able to experiment with batch cooking
Nor have we been able to keep drinks cold
When a weekly shop has just arrived
I am also looking forward to having a large enough freezer
To keep spare bread and milk in stock
I think this newest appliance
Will fast become a favourite
Do you have a favourite kitchen appliance?
I would love to know what it is and why
Am I missing a vital ingredient in my new kitchen?
What is the one thing in your kitchen you would not be without?
This is a collaborative post
I’m in the same predicament as you; our new home is almost built but still so much to do. We’ve outgrown this house, our fridge is tiny, no dishwasher, mountain of laundry on the kitchen floor…
The end is in sight, just think of the positives.
I think we knew as time went on that we would run out of money before all the jobs were complete. Building takes longer than we anticipated and we want to move back home. The rest can be done in slow time around us x