For the last week I have been lost in a flurry of papers
Planning, collecting ideas, researching, reading replanning
It has been an intense, self imposed, total immersion
Into getting ready to teach
I am beyond excited at having a classroom again
I want to create a bright, colourful, language rich learning space
For the children in my class
I am giddy planning topics and lessons
Linking all our learning to stories, poems and treasured books
Designing displays
Invitations to play
My mind is in overdrive
And it feels wonderful!
I feel alive!
I have been stuck in a rut of bitterness
Sidelined by sadness for too long
I had lost myself
And now I am finding me again
I adore my children
But I have not been a very good mummy to them
I have been hurting too much
Feeling too little
I have been a shadow of myself
I think only through finding me
Doing something for me
Can I be the mummy I long to be
I had forgotten what it was like to talk to people outside of my home
To share a passion for something
To want to do something amazing
To make a difference to a child that may stay with them for always
I want to do that for my own children
And those I am lucky enough to teach
I am ready
It is time to teach
Things are crazy busy at the moment
I will be working in a brand new classroom
In a tiny, rapidly growing, rapidly improving school
I have 6 weeks
To get myself and the classroom ready
I have a lovely job share
An awesome TA
And a fabulous Head
I am joining a committed, friendly and supportive team
And I cannot wait to be one of them
The summer is going to be madness
So much to do
But also memories to make with Esther, William and Bea
Before our lives are changed by school
This summer I want to spend one special day with each of my children
On their own
Just them and me
When I stop and think about the changes to come
It makes me so sad
I love my children
But I also love teaching
And I never thought I would want to go back
While my own children are so small
But I really really do
I will have two days a week with Bea
Just Bea and me
And as much time as I can manage
Outside of school hours with the twins
I am hoping by grabbing some of myself back
I will make the most of my time with my children more
I have missed smiling and laughing
And being good at something
I have missed feeling like things I do might make a difference
My heart still aches every day
And Tilda is always at the heart of everything I do
But I have to do this
I want to do this and do it well
It is time to teach
It is time to find the courage
To pick myself up
And make my children proud of me
It is time to do something for me
That will enable me to do more for them
To ease the pain
Stop the hurting
We all need for me to do this
And do it right
It is time to teach
Those children are so lucky to have you – and I mean the ones you are going to teach and the ones you gave birth to. All of them.
Time away from my kids makes me a better mummy to them – I am confident about that and I’m sure it will be the same for you. Those two days with Bea will be so much richer than if you were just together all the time, and on the other days she will be learning that she can be safe with other adults and explore more of the world.
I am so pleased for you! You sound so excited and that is absolutely fantastic!
Wishing you the best of luck x
I am so chuffed for you Jenny. What a brave decision. You really are a remarkable person. Xx
We wish you all the best Jennie in your new venture…. how exciting! The children cannot but love the lessons and experiences that you have planned for them and undoubtedly they will form the basis of many memories for the years ahead. All the best
Brush-Baby
p.s. love the fab new haircut – stylish lady!
Congratulations Jennie. Wonderful news.
Congratulations on the job, and good luck with it! Enjoy summer!
I think you will find it very cathartic and it will be good to find Jennie again underneath that all. Good luck!
Congratulations on the job, and all the best! x