Dear Esther
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
Your beauty takes my breath away
I love the way you come and find me every morning
I love the way you ask every morning
Is it morning?
I love the way you are trying so hard to be a good girl
You have a very strong sense of right and wrong
I love your caring nature
Your adoration for your twin
You care about how others feel
And do not like to think anyone is being left out
I love that you love singing
And you are so good at making up songs
I love that you act out stories
And together with William make up new versions
Your latest being The Lion King 6
A version where you can do whatever you want
I love that when you act the film out
You are always Simba and William Nala
I love your love of being outside
I love the intricacy of your small world play
I love how you lose yourself in your imaginative play
I love the way you tell me stories
I love that you are starting to think about what you wear
That you ask so many questions about so many different things
I love how very girly you can be
How you love fairies and ponies and pretty things
I love the way you whisper answers to questions
I love that you love to cuddle me
The way you climb up onto my lap
All arms and legs and knotty blonde hair
I love it when I pretend to fall asleep on your bed
And I promise that one night I will stay with you the whole night through
I love our snatched moments together
Without the madness of William and the demands of Bea
I am looking forward to more times
Just you and me
I worry sometimes how sad you are
I watch you at the times you choose to play alone
I am sorry you know what death is
And have experienced such heartache so young
I am sorry I am often sad and a grump
I promise our best days are still to come
Please know that I love you
I would lay down my life for you
You are my eldest daughter
And I have loved you since before you were born
Dear Esther
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
Dear William
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
You and Polar Bear and Little Polar Bear
You with your loud voice
And your silly baby noises
You with your jokes and your constant chatting
Nonstop repetitive chatting
You drive me crazy in the best of ways
How I love you William
My gorgeous only son
I love your obsession with Thomas and trains
I love your curiosity and how you want to know how all things work
I love the way you shout out National Speed in the car
And what an enthusiastic back seat driver you are
You are clever and brave
Compassionate too
Wise beyond your years
And yet so very innocent
I love your remarkable memory
I love your quirky personality
I love that you are so emotional
That you cry at sad stories and films
You have such empathy for others
Makes me as proud as proud can be
I love your imagination
I love how kind and caring you are
How you look after Baby Bea
How possessive you are
Especially about trains
And yet you share so well with your sisters
I love the way you remember Matilda Mae
And still tell me you love her and miss her all the time
I love that you are so good at reading
Yet refuse to hold a pen and write
I love the ongoing questions
The narration of all you do
You are my funny little man
You
My World’s Strongest Engine enthusiast
You who loves to sleep not in your bed but on the floor
You who loves cuddles and extra cuddles
How do I love you?
More and more every minute of every day
In case you think I don’t love you William
I do I do I do
Dear Bea
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
You are such a beautiful baby
A fabulous giggle
A magic smile
You are so clever in so many ways
Our bringer of hope and joy
I love the way you cuddle me
Clamber up and snuggle in
I love your mischievous side
Your cheeky grin
Your determination to find the smallest thing on the floor
Put it to your mouth and stuff it in
I love your heavy limbed crawling
And you explore at such a pace
You are my favourite comedian
Fighting for your place among the family
I love that you have such a strong character
I love how much of Tilda I see in you
I love that you are entirely different
Increasingly independent
I love that you are you
I love your enthusiastic waving
Your clapping
Your touching your head
I love how you charm every single person that you meet
I love how much you need me
Even though you exhaust me
There is no where I would rather be
I love that you adore your Daddy
As obviously as you do
I love every little thing about you
Even the bits that make me cry
In case you think I don’t love you
Beautiful Rainbow Bea
I do
Dear David
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
I love you so much more than you know
So much more than I show
I love your strength
I love your patience
I love your understanding
I love your values
I love your creativity
I love your intelligence
I love your dedication
Determination
Your spirit and your fight
I love your loyalty
I love your family
I love all of you
And all you do
I just love you
I love you
I like you
I respect you
I hate to be without you
You are the heart of me
My soul mate
My husband
My best friend
I could not be without you
I am nothing without you
I won’t be anywhere without you
Totally lost without you around
When you are with me I feel complete
Without you I am missing
You know me better than I know me
Love me better than I love me
You are a better person than I’ll ever be
I am so grateful for you
For all of you
So thankful our children have you as their father
Their hero
Their Daddy
You inspire me every day
I adore you more every single day
In case you think I don’t love you David
I honestly truly do
In case you think I don’t love you
I do
Gosh, I adore this. What a truly beautiful post. Xx
Oh Jennie, this such a beautiful post. I have no doubt that your beautiful family know exactly how much you love them but to have written all of this down will mean so much to them. You have all been through more than most people go through in life, the way you have all dealt with it is admirable. It’s so amazing how much of Tilda is in Bea – I adore the photo of her with all those bubbles on her head! Your wedding photos are just stunning too. You have such a beautiful family and I know that Tilda will always be a huge part of it. Take care xxx
This is beautiful, Jennie. Something for them to treasure. It’s nice to take stock once in a while of all that we have, as it’s too easy to not notice all these beautiful little things you’ve listed above until they’ve passed.
I hope you don’t mind but I want to do a post like this for my family now.
This is so heartfelt and beautiful Jennie. A tumble of words that come right from the hearts your family will treasure this forever. Of course they know you love them but seeing it written down like this is so special. X
An absolutely beautiful post Jennie. So precious.xxx
Oh Jennie. I have tears in my eyes. So beautiful. No one should doubt for a moment how much you love your children and your husband, but in the event they do, they should come and read this and be put right xxx
Oh Jennie, this is so beautiful and honest and full of love. I’m sure your family have no doubt of your love but they will be able to look back and read these words. Beautiful. Xx
Beautiful post, I am sure they all know x
I don’t think there is ever any doubt of the love you have for your family. You feel it the moment you walk in to your home. Love. x x
This is a truly truly truly beautiful post Jennie. x
This is such a gorgeous post and such beautifully written xx