I have made a tough decision tonight
The Baby Tilda Barn Dance will be my final event for The Lullaby Trust
For a little while
I want to batten down the hatches for a while
Growing this Rainbow Baby is much harder than I thought it would be
And I am missing Matilda Mae more and more every day
I want to keep her to myself for a while
I want to cherish the time I have left with Esther and William
Before we lose them to the world of school
I want to get my head around the fact that we are having a baby
There is going to be a baby in our lives again
I need to make myself understand that she will not be Matilda Mae
I want to enjoy the summer
And I also have some exciting plans
For working with Tommy’s and Count The Kicks
Together with my lovely bump buddy Born Silently
I want to organise an event
That both remembers our babies gone but
Also celebrates our Rainbows being here
I hope and pray with all my heart
That both our Rainbows will be here
But this is it
My last big event for a while
I want it to be a good one
And I would love for you to be there
Life is a dance. Sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow. Don’t worry about what we don’t know, what’s important is we learn new steps as we go.
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The Baby Tilda Barn Dance is being held in The Millennium Hall, Egerton, Kent
Egerton is a lovely village near Ashford in Kent
The barn dance will start at 12 and finish around 6.30pm
The hall will be decked with pink and purple bunting and balloons
We will have music and dancing
And lots and lots and lots for children to do
The music is being provided by Classical Babies, Tapestry starring the rather lovely Fi from Child Care Is Fun and a local barn dance trio
We are looking forward to a wonderful, music filled day
The rather wonderful Beebies Baby Store
Has planned a spectacular range of family fun activities
To fill our Marquee of Play
As well as skipping and swaying and do si doing
You will be able to enjoy
The Craft Table
Here you can sit with your little ones and create pipecleaner and tissue paper flowers, You can make a paper plate mask or a star wand and crown. This will be a little corner of creativity, a place to rest amid all the dancing and fun.
A Fabric Fancies Tea Party
Maybe your little one would like to bring a teddy or a dolly to join them at this most beautiful of fabric tea parties. They can share strawberry pie, blueberry pie, cinammon loaf and hot cross buns. There is a tea set complete with tea bags, a birthday cake with candles. There will be play cookies, mini sandwiches and very special Matilda Mae cakes. These special edition Baby Tilda cakes will be available to order on the day as a momento of the dance with all profits being given directly to The Lullaby Trust.
Transport Station
A place to play with wooden trains and cars and a teeny tiny wooden village.
Baby Corner
We all know the saying ‘No one puts Baby in a corner’, well, at the Baby Tilda Barn Dance you might just want to. Beebies Baby Store are providing a range of toys for tiny ones to try including baby blocks, stacking cups and soft toys.
All The Fun Of The Fair
Just for fun there will be a range of fairground games: Hook a duck, Tin can alley, Ball in the bucket, Hoopla and more. No prizes, no payment, just good old fashioned family fun for everyone to try.
Also in the Play Marquee there will be face painting and nail painting for a very small charge.
The hall is on a large village green with hills to roll down, swings and slide to play on.
We think we have the makings of a perfect day.
There will be giant bubbles on the lawn and bottles of bubbles for guests to blow too.
There will be a traditional Kent Hog Roast and afternoon tea.
Ella’s Kitchen and Bear Nibbles have provided us with a range of healthy baby and toddler snacks.
All we need now is you!
Please do come along and join us for the dance if you can and also help us to spread the word.
We would love to fill the hall with fun loving families, coming together to enjoy a party that Matilda Mae never can.
To honour her, remember her and be thankful for all that we have and share with our friends and family.
Tickets for the Baby Tilda Barn Dance cost £10 for adults and £5 for children aged over 3
They are available to buy through Beebies Baby Store where you will also find opportunities to sponsor a dance or an element of the day.
The more tickets we sell and the more sponsorship we gain the more money we will be able to give to The Lullaby Trust.
If you are coming to the dance please bring some money with you on the day as we also have an amazing raffle with prizes from Livie and Luca, Kyna Boutique, Appletree Bags, Zu3D, Snoob, Munchkin, Mia Tui, Tiny Discoverers, Music Bugs, Lily and Sid, Mama Designs, Minnies Macaroon, Child Care Is Fun, Princess and the Frock, Ellie Illustrates, Bibee Dresses, Ruby and Ginger, Music Bugs, Niteo Jewellery, Itsy Bits and Sweet Pea Pantry.
We really do hope to see you there
For more information and to keep up to date with the event please join our event page on Facebook.
We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams.
Angela Monet
I think it’s the right decision. And I have every confidence you think so too!
I can’t wait for the barn dance, and then f
Cont.. For you to relax xxx
I’m so proud of all you’ve achieved for Tilda’s legacy xxx
It is going to be wonderful. I’m glad you’ve made a decision that you’re happy with
x x x x
Jennie, Thank you so much from everyone at The Lullaby Trust for everything that you have done for us in Tilda’s memory, not only for fundraising an incredible amount of money but also for raising so much awareness of sudden infant death. We look forward to hearing all about Tilda’s barn dance, but more importantly we wish you lots of luck with your #rainbowbaby. Please do stay in touch & let us know if you need anything. With best wishes, The Lullaby Trust x
Oh we are very much looking forward to the Barn Dance!
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I have wanted to read a post like this from you for some time. You matter and it is important for you to take care of yourself. You will always grieve but I sense you are turning another corner in that journey. All I would say is watch yourself – you are a do-er so it might be hard to step back quite as much as is good for you. Sent with the best of wishes. All the very best with the event too.