Reaching 24 weeks is an important milestone for any Mummy but for a Mummy who gave birth to her last babies at 27 week plus 3 it is a very special occasion. If Matilda May is born now they have to try and save her.
A baby born at 24 weeks has a 40% – 70% chance of survival and each week that she continues to hang on then of course her chances improve.
I am a bit worried about the coming weeks. 25 weeks and 3 days is when my last pregnancy started to go wrong and I was rushed into hospital with a twisted bowel. I am terrified that something similar may happen again. But I have to say that I am no where near the size I was at this time with Esther and William, so that offers some comfort and hope.
I am definitely feeling pregnant now. I seem to have a permanent stuffy nose and can become breathless very quickly when chasing round after the twins, both of whom are now toddling around on their own!
I get tired in the middle of the day and as often as I can I nap when the babies do at 11am. It recharges me for the afternoon shift that William in particular finds so hard to deal with.
I am really worried about William. He has been very clingy to me lately and seems to have a renewed fascination with my breasts. He likes to comfort himself by putting his hand in my top and on my breasts. I wonder if he can smell the milk developing for the new baby?
I am worried about how both toddlers will cope with the arrival of their younger sibling. They are both loving babies and I am not sure they will understand who or what this thing is that will be taking up so much of Mummy’s time. I worry about how I am going to breastfeed and keep Esther and William amused during feeding times. Any ideas?
More pressingly I am worried about how I am going to cope with Esther and William in the latter stages of pregnancy. As my bump gets bigger I am gradually starting to find certain things harder to do, and I am really not that big yet.
On a positive note though. The things for Matilda’s nursery have started arriving. I can’t wait to set up her little corner of our room.
I am also starting to prepare presents for her arrival; Gifts for Matilda from Esther and William and Gifts for Esther and William from Matilda. I think I am settled on E and W each getting a doll so that they can have a baby of their own and do some of the new things that Mummy does. And Matilda is getting a Teddykompaniet Zebra comforter. Esther had a giraffe one when she was born and William had an elephant. It is only fitting that Matilda has one too. I am hoping that our next baby will be a little boy and he can have the lion.
Yes, I really am already thinking about the next one. I would really love for us to have four children altogether. David is one of four and it seems to work really well. I love the idea of being head of a big family one day.
I am feeling Matilda move lots now. The movements are still quite fluttery but they are definitely there and she is certainly becomig more active at certain parts of the day. I love when Esther and William are in bed having a bit of time for just me and her. She always obliges as I sit down to rest to start kicking and flailing about! Something she shares with her siblings already!
I have booked our antenatal classes with NCT. I am really looking forward to them as we missed out last time and I feel totally unprepared for the birth and the third trimester.
Just a few more weeks to go and we will be chartering unknown territory and inspite of all my worries I really cannot wait.
If you can answer any of my concerns or have any advice for enjoying the third trimester with toddlers in tow I would love for you to leave a comment below.
24 weeks and viable. But still a way to go.
You’re going to be fine lovely. If it helps, The Boy went through a stage of shoving his hand down my cleavage and nestling it in my bra, he called it a pocket. I think it might just be skin-skin contact? Doubt it’s the milk.
Happy Viability Day. Here’s to many more happy weeks of pregnancy xxx
Happy 24 weeks 🙂 Im a week behind you but my bump looks tiny I can’t for him to get bigger. x
Oh my beautiful bump hun, and all bump and your still so slim. aww congrats again Claire Louise.x
Congratulations on reaching the viability stage, I am sure all will be fine for you, I will be keeping watch on your post for updates! x
Congratulations on 24 weeks. 1 weeks time and you will be past your next mile stone and then 28 weeks here you come 🙂 I know it is hard to relax but take comfort in the fact W and E were early due to your surgery rather than something like a weak cervix or pre-enclampsia. Hope you enjoy your third trimester and getting really big. As for the hand down the top, I think it is a boy thing, both mine did it for a long time not just to me but also to any female, which could get quite embarrassing!
Oh this just made me laugh! The prospect of my lovely little toddler son groping women for comfort x Thank you x
I think you are amazing – my baby boy was born at 24 +5 in may last year and although he is doing brilliantly I can not even consider another pregnancy, I’m far too scared so I takes hat off to you and your bravery. I don’t know why my baby came so early so I guess that doesn’t help. Well done you – and good luck for the 3rd trimester xx
Aaahh congratulations a huge milestone. You are looking fab and I am sure it will all be okay. Not long now and cannot believe you are already planning another…brave woman xx
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