So I am now the mother of six year old twins Six! How can that be? I am so proud of my little 27 weekers Of how far they have come Of all they have achieved I am so proud … Continue reading
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Charity Chat: The Lullaby Trust
The Lullaby Trust have walked beside me since Tilda died Along with Count The Kicks They have virtually held my hand As they do for all families like mine For all families who have suddenly and unexpectedly lost a baby … Continue reading
Charity Chat: Count The Kicks
This month has been declared #FlamingJune by the #matexp campaign People are taking action to improve maternity experiences for families I am focusing on pregnancy, prematurity and loss I am taking action to support bereaved families after the loss of … Continue reading
#MatExp Action: Sharing Children’s Books about Death, Grief and Babyloss
This month the #matexp campaign are asking people to stand up and take action Do something to help others Make your voice heard Use your skills, talents, experience to influence others My actions are focused on grief and babyloss My … Continue reading
10 Ways to Inspire a Love of Learning This Summer
This summer is our last complete summer together After this year Esther and William will be at school for all of June and July This year we are having a great big #summerofplay As we #countdowntobigschool We have lots of … Continue reading
A Little BiB MAD (Updated)
It is award season for bloggers I feel a bit behind the pack this year A little out of the loop Not in the running But I know that it will eat at me If I do not write this … Continue reading
Counting Down To School … Again
So tonight parents across the UK are waiting to find out Where their little ones will go to school I have never experienced placement eve This time last year we were not sure if and when Esther and William would … Continue reading
11 Baby Proof Basics for Babies on the Move
Beautiful Bea is 7 months old
She started sitting independently at 5 months
Crawling at 6
She is now starting to stand at every opportunity
And will soon I am certain be cruising the furniture
It has all happened so fast
And we are in no way prepared
Tilda sat early but she did not crawl until the day she died
Aged 9 months
Esther and William were older still
Because of their prematurity
This is something new
Bea is something else!
She is a big, strong baby
She is a power house
And it is easy to forget how very young and fragile she is
She moves fast and she is determined to lay her hands on all the things she cannot have
Because she is so young
She does not have the language to tell us what she is trying to do
Where she is trying to go
She does not really understand caution or danger
There is a lot of miscommunication going on!
Before kitting her out in a safety helmet and protective pads
Or putting her in a cage
There are more measured approaches we can try
To baby proof our home
The average age for a baby to start crawling is 8 months
So Baby Bea being only just 6 months
Has taken us a little by surprise
Really you should prepare your home
Before your baby is on the move
Here are some of the things you can do
To keep your baby safe once they are on the move
Keep the floor clear of small items, babies will put anything and everything into their mouths. Small items can be a choking hazard.
Make sure wires are not trailing or left exposed. Use cable ties to keep wires together tidily. Keep wires out of babies reach.
Make sockets safe. We try to cover our sockets with furniture rather than using socket covers as there are some doubts over the safety of the covers.
Do not put hot drinks in baby’s reach and not near the edge of tables. Once babies are cruising they will be able to reach low tables and knock drinks off.
Use door stops or a wedge to keep doors open and protect little fingers.
Use window locks especially on any windows baby and other children can reach or climb to.
Install a fireguard. We have a large one that means Bea is kept away from the heat of the fire and also the hard unforgiving corners of the hearth.
Put locks on cupboards and drawers that contain dangerous items.
Secure furniture so that baby cannot pull it over on to themselves or others.
Check any blind cords and chains are out of reach.
Do not leave your baby unattended.
These are just some of the precautions you can take to protect your baby at home
David and I took special care to make Esther and William’s bedroom as safe as possible
Now we are doing the same for Bea
I would love to know your top tips for babyproofing your home
Is it possible to prevent accidents with a very young crawling baby
Or should I invest in one of these?
For more tips on babyproofing your home you can check out Baby Centre
Wondering whether babyproofing is worth it? Read ROSPA here
If you decide that babyproofing is for you, check out Lindam for a wide range of safety products for your home
5 Reasons my Summer Born Premature Twins Should Not Have Started School Until They Were 5
All year something has not been quite right with school Esther and William are more than happy to go They enjoy school If you ask them if they would like to go to school or stay at home William would … Continue reading
Esther and William and #StartingSchool
I have already told the story of my campaign to delay the school starting date for my premature twins We live in Kent and the LEA here does not seem to have any clear policy For the flexible admission of … Continue reading